Your Attachment Style Is
Disorganized Attachment
Disorganized attachment is a combination of both anxious attachment and avoidant attachment. That means that you have both high anxiety and high avoidance in relationships.
You are desirous of love and affection, while at the same time terribly afraid of it. You experience highs and lows at such depths that it's hard for you to know what "steady ground" looks like. You like to have close, intimate relationships but feel incapable of achieving them because of fear. You have conflicting emotions, you feel torn between wanting to belong, to be loved, and to love people, but not being able to let anyone in. You're afraid that the people you're closest with are going to hurt you, and may feel like rejection and hurt are inevitable.
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